Make blue build with MSVCv145 by default on windows

[ccptoebeans]

• CMake Presets changed to use v145 toolchain file + v145 vcpkg triplets
• Team City configuration changed to use v145 by default
• Minor code changes to enable new compiler use
  • NULL or 0 can no longer be returned from PyObject* type functions
  • #include <locale.h> must be explicitly included, old windows SDK was exposing local through some other include
• rely on carbon-core v3.0.1 which contains fixed public header files compilable with v145 (this broke initially after the inital v145 change as part of Tracy changes. )
• rely on carbon-pdmprotowrapper v3.0.0 which does not exist yet. This has been tested locally using an overlay port. A forked vcpkg-registry will be created with this version contained in it. It does not mean that v3.0.0 is the defacto version number choice for carbon-pdmprotowrapper, as we will upgrade the port seperately when we are ready to merge the pdm-proto-wrapper changes
• We are no longer forced to pin the protobuf version everywhere in our build tree 🎉 - Override removed

[CCP-Aporia]

Why not move the above #include <locale> statement in front of the #ifndef instead of introducing the #else branch?

[CCP-Aporia]

Shouldn't this rename the preset to include 145 as well? And is truly really no longer buildable with v141?