fix(wallet): avoid deadlocks in custom persister callbacks

[reez]

Description

Aims to prevent deadlocks when custom persistence callbacks re enter a wallet by invoking foreign code without wallet or persister locks held (trys to preserve staged changes and reject nested persistence safely).

Notes to the reviewers

Documentation

• bdk_wallet
  • WalletPersister::persist
  • PersistedWallet::persist
  • Wallet::staged
  • Wallet::take_staged
• bitcoin
• uniffi
• Other:

Changelog

Checklists

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New Features:

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Bugfixes:

• This pull request breaks the existing API
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